My chronological experiences as a traveling parent read like a history book of increased airport security. Because my first child was born about nine months before the September 11th attacks, my travels with children have been subjected to greater and greater security measures with each passing year. In my mind, I can attach certain increases in security to different trips with kids of different ages.
For example, I had one infant in a sling when it was decided that parents could no longer carry their children through security without extra screening. It was that same year with a slightly older baby that I was subjected to extra screening because I had packed a baby spork in my carry on. Then, I had two toddlers when we all (even babies wearing flip flops) had to remove our shoes to pass through security. I had two preschoolers and an infant when liquids were banned from flights. One of my best airport memories is passing through security and being forced to pour the juice from their sippy cups while they wailed inconsolably. Good times.
Such a happy day when kids could keep their shoes on at security
Now, I have four kids at various ages and stages we have become pros at removing and merry go round that is airport security.With some trial and error we have developed a system that works for us to get us through security as quickly and efficiently with as little screaming as possible.
1. Relax and be patient. I’m putting this first because it took me too many years to learn this lesson. I was a bundle of nerves as we neared the security line, and not without reason. Getting kids through security is hard, especially because all the people around you are cranky and in a hurry. I let myself feed into this frenzy and cause myself and my kids more harm than good. Once I finally learned to relax, it was easier for everyone.
2. Speaking of being in a hurry, don’t be. Give yourself plenty of time. If you notice that someone behind you seems to be in a hurry, offer to let them go ahead of you or suggest that they might want to pick a different line. Do not feel badly if the people in line behind you seem impatient. They can easily move to another line if they do not want to wait behind your family.
3. Arrange your luggage for security while you wait in line. Jackets come off and can easily be tied to backpack straps. Shoes come off and are placed inside the bag. Unload all your luggage from the stroller, but leave the baby in the stroller until the end.
4. Pack empty sippy cups, as well as any baby bottles (which can contain liquid) on the exterior pockets of your bag or backpack. If security sees a container inside your bags, they will likely begin rummaging through your bags to find the cup and make sure it is empty.
5. Have a plan for who will handle what as you enter the line. In our family, Dad holds all passports and tickets and shows them to the agent upon entering the line. After that tickets/passports go into his pockets, so they are easily accessible as needed. Further on, Dad takes care of loading all carry-on items onto the belt and Mom takes care of the kids.
6. Prepare your kids for the security process. Make sure they know that all their items will have to go on the belt and that they will have to walk through the metal detector alone. Practice at home if necessary and try to make your kids feel positively about the security process.
7. Warn older kids that it is not funny to joke about bombs or weapons. I have instructed my kids that they are not allowed to even mention those words during security screenings. (I actually ask them not to talk at all, but that’s a different issue.)
8. Work out a system for passing through the metal detector. This seems to be the point where normally well behaved children go limp and refuse to move or some other infuriating behavior. If you are flying with another adult, you can work together to make this safe and easy for everyone.
9. Think about safety. Because security is a place where your attention can be divided, it is easier for a child to slip away. To keep everyone safe and accounted for, here’s what we do. Dad does all the lifting and loading onto the conveyor belt, starting with the stroller. Then he passes through the metal detector and I send the older kids through to him one at a time. The older kids know to proceed to the nearest bench to sit and wait for instructions. At this point the stroller has passed through the metal detector and he sets it up and ready for the baby or toddler. Once the stroller is ready, I allow the toddlers to walk through and Dad picks them up and secures them in the stroller. Finally, I pass through and together we begin passing out backpacks and getting our shoes.
10. Ask for help. Almost all security personnel will help you if need help and ask. I have found it most beneficial to say “What is your suggestion?” whenever I encounter a situation that is difficult. Security personnel would like for things to run according to the textbook, but kids often throw the book right out the window. Assure security personnel that you are happy to cooperate, but have to operate with your child’s needs and safety in mind. Almost always, they will find a way to help.
The only thing I’d add is to use the family and medical liquids line if its available in your airport. Its always faster than the other security lines, they are used to dealing with liquids over 3 ounces (such as juice, formula, and breast milk), and no one looks at you because you are taking too long. While this doesn’t always work, in airports that don’t have one, I’ve asked them to let me use the priority line instead. You never know unless you ask!
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I especially like the tip about keeping empty bottles and cups in an exterior pocket. I never thought of that. TSA once held up both my husband and I for some extra inspection. During that time, my kids managed to vanish around the corner at Houston Intercontinental. After my big freak out once I caught up with them, they now know to hang out by the “put-on-shoes bench” and wait. Here’s a tip from our recent trip to China: Every single person gets patted down after going through the metal detector, even kids.
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We have all this fun to come. My wife and I have a 6 month old baby girl, and we are about to do the long haul from the UK to Sydney to visit family. Getting through the airport security is going to be the easy part… great tips though thank you.
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Great tips. Another one – bring a copy of the TSA rules if you are traveling with liquids for babies and toddlers. I’ve had many TSA agents make up rules on the spot to me that I knew were not official. If you have a printout, you can (nicely) show them that they are misinformed and hopefully be on your way with your juice, formula, or milk.
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